Making your divorce public
Today, CNN.com reported on a wife in a bitter divorce battle who put up a YouTube video about her husband. Needless to say, the video does not exactly show the husband in a positive light, and in my opinion doesn't show the wife's best side either. Clearly, this is in poor taste, but such actions could also jeopardize her divorce case as well. Fault can be a factor in determining alimony and division of marital property, so any action that could make you look vindictive or mean-spirited to a judge could hurt your case. Also, it is often best to avoid discussing the divorce or litigation with anyone other than your attorney. Your statements may end up being used against you at court, and during an emotional divorce you may not have the objectiveness or the foresight to know what you should and should not say. When in doubt, always consult with your attorney...what you say can definitely hurt you. P.S. Remember when you are testifying or giving a deposition your non-verbal clues may also be "testifying." Beware of hostile body language, eye rolling, and fidgeting.
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